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They don’t have to play childish games with an older female… We know what we want and they love that confidence. Sounds as if you’re a little jealous… Just saying. It’s perfectly normal to date someone older than you. I am a 19 year old guy in a long term committed relationship with a 35 year old woman.

She knows YOU well enough not to tell you about this guy because she knew you’d be all judgey about it, so I think she has full awareness of the possible impact on her still-at-home children. My mom, at 25, had her 20 year old boyfriend move in with herself and her 5 year old daughter (that’s me) after a year of exchanging letters and seeing each other face to face once a month for a weekend. She came from an abusive background (my biological father being only the latest, we were hiding from him for years and I’ve still never met him, nor do I want to). He left college in the middle of a semester to move in with us. Now, the age gap was not as extreme – she was one hot mama, in fact – but you know what? 19 years later, they’re still together, and very, very happy.

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Not only the best sex I have ever had, but he is very attentive and makes sure I am happy. He is, by far, the most romantic, spontaneous man I’ve ever dated. He’s also very unselfish and thoughtful of others. That’s what’s happening to me, I’m 53 he 25, but I don’t wanna live together I wanna give him his space because he young, he adores me.

People get background checked prior to even being told where I live. I ended up growing up fine; however, the things I saw as a child has affected me when it comes to marriage. I do get scared when someone starts to emotionally get close to me, and I start to get cold feet. Outside of that, I have a college degree and have had the same job for 8.5 years, have a loving family, and great friends.

The relationship will be a lot less strange if you’ve already gotten your life under control. That means, you have a steady job and plenty of hobbies outside of the relationship. You also need to be happy with yourself. Otherwise, you may go into the relationship resenting the fact that she still has a lot of time to grow and figure her own life out. As she sees you as the older man, she’ll also expect for you to have some financial stability and a life plan in regards to your career. While you always hear success stories, a big age difference—like seven to ten years and over—come with a lot of judgment.

With a gap like that, they’ll probably assume you’re taking advantage of her, or trying to relive your 20s again through her. If you’re serious about her, you’ll try to make sure you give a great impression to her folks and address any concerns. I think it comes down to where both of you are in life and what you both are looking for.

If she’s worth it, and you can really picture a great future with her, it’s a challenge you’ll both be naturally willing to handle together. If you’re in your mid-to-late 20s or above, you may get a few nervous glances if you date someone between the ages of 18 to 21. That’s because even though they’re legally adults, they’re barely there yet. Just think back to your early 20s and think about how differently you handled your life and everyday responsibilities. You can’t expect a 20-year-old to be on the same page as you if you’re a decade older. I don’t think dating a younger man should be anything long term, but that’s just my opinion.

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Ok, I am 25 and I have been messing around with my next door neighbor. She is 38 and just moved in to the building about 6 months ago. She is in the middle of getting a divorce from her husband. We started sleeping together about three months ago on the weekends when her 2 kids went to there fathers for a weekend visit.

It is very likely that he is preying on this vulnerable woman, but I doubt he intends to harm a 13 year old. And if you knew ANYTHING about how they force themselves into people’s lives, then you would know how many red flags it raises that he’s moving after two months of knowing each other without even having met her son. Not to mention the fact that he’s moving forward so fast with a woman who has dated in 11 years after dealing with a nightmare of an abusive husband. Women with a history of abusive partners.

Go into this without judgement and start asking questions. Like, why are they moving in so quickly. Plenty of Fish is hands down one of the most popular free dating sites out there, and a whopping 80% of the singles who use it are over 30. Most of the site’s features are free, which means you don’t have to upgrade to send/receive messages or see who checked out your profile. It will alert you if a Happn user wanders within a dating radius that you set, which can encompass up to 55 miles from wherever you currently are.

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” Twenty-two year olds do shit like move in quickly and not consider say, the fact that your girlfriend has kids. We already know that Mom has very poor judgement in men. How else did she have 3 kids over a period of a decade with an abusive, mentally ill, alcoholic, who now finds himself in prison.

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There is no conclusive evidence of palaces or temples. Some structures are thought to have been granaries. Found at one city is an enormous well-built bath (the “Great Bath”), which may have been a public bath. Although the citadels were walled, it is far from clear that these structures were defensive.

The qualities you liked most are what you should look for in your next relationship. This positive attitude toward dating is really refreshing. As we mature and get hurt, or scammed, we start to get a bit of doubt that grows. Dating someone younger can revive your positive outlook on relationships and help you connect to your hopeful nature.